Friendship
Ecc.(NIV) 9 Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
I texted a friend this morning and was saddened to learn she has been undergoing major health concerns for several months. It amazes me how quickly friends can lose touch. It is not for lack of caring, but instead we sometimes are so caught up with our own traumas (and dramas) that our friendships occasionally suffer.
I have always loved this scripture in Ecclesiastes that highlights the importance of friendship. We see in clear, concise language the reasoning behind the human need for friendships. We are more productive, if we fall there is an ally to help us get back on our feet, and there is less likelihood of two being overpowered.
Admittedly, I never thought much about this third aspect of friendship. I grew up in the 50’s and ‘60’s in Little Rock where crime was much less concerning than in Solomon’s time. But in the 21st century most of us are well aware of the possibility of becoming a victim of crime and we just feel safer with a friend by our side.
The final aspect of friendship as defined by Solomon is the need for God in any relationship. When Solomon reminds us a three fold cord is not easily broken, we see that all relationships are strengthened by God, and friendship is no exception. So I encourage each of you to ask God to watch over and strengthen your friendships, preventing those relationships that are strong and those that are fragile from falling apart. You will be so glad that you took the time to ask God to bless your friends and your relationships.
In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
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